1.13.2025
being alive is beautiful
i rode the train again today and was overcome with this wave of love for everyone around me and an immense appreciation for the achievements of humankind.
the fact that we were sitting in this marvel of engineering, zipping through these giant buildings, all holding miniature computers in our pockets- it's all so amazing.
i thought about how in love i am with this city and how often i say that to friends who ask me how i'm doing after the move. and it's not just me. so many people from all over the world chose to live here because they love it. because it's incredible and even if we don't think about it every day we're living in the future. we have access to such incredible technology every day. it's remarkable to think about how much thought and planning was put into every single aspect of our modern lives by our ancestors who worked tirelessly to innovate.
i felt a wave of love for myself as well.
a girl riding the train on her own, on her day off, on her way to spend the day at the museum. nails painted, dirty hair in a claw clip, wearing a leather jacket a few sizes too big. i thought about what i would think if i saw someone else who looked like me on the train and i felt endeared to myself in that moment.
i remembered my day at the aquarium and how i smiled at the girl who took my ticket, and how she smiled back, and how happy it makes me to exchange a smile with another girl.
my hands were cold in my gloves and i thought about how nice it would be to be holding someone's hand.
when i got off the train i overheard a group of girls behind me talking about their weekend and laughing.
"they said we were supposed to drink water after our massages, and instead we drank
alcohol~!" it sounded like they were having a lot of fun.
the wave of love i felt at the museum was nearly overwhelming. slowly, quietly, me and the other patrons took our time taking in these beautiful old works of art for no other purpose than to enhance our lives by observing something beautiful.
the bronze sculptures were pacticularly captivating. i chose not to read the descriptions of the artworks so i could interpret them on my own. one sculpture was called
Lamenting Group.
in one room there was a large painting of a monkey eating fruit. it had a really sweet and mischeavous face. a child saw it and turned to his mom excitedly, tugging on her pant leg and pointing it out to her.
on my way home i saw a beautiful stranger and i wondered what it would be like if they approached me and struck up a conversation. i decided it would be nice, but noticing their beauty and never seeing them again was just as good.
i write this and i'm thinking about you, the person reading this, and the people who visit my site, and the fact that i decided to make this site and share these thoughts. i don't like writing. i think i'm terrible at it and i don't like the way i sound when i've chosen my words too carefully. but sharing these moments where i'm overwhelmed with the beauty of life feels imperative regardless of my writing ability.
i'm so moved by the beautiful complexity of being alive. i don't know what to do with myself!
1.10.2025
i'm in love with this place
i have never felt more alive. even when i'm struggling i can't help but be awestruck by the simple beauty in everything around me. the moments i spend on my own, taking in the little things, without my phone or any distractions... that's when i feel the most like myself.
- laying on the grass at the park, watching a meteor shower.
- going on a two hour walk to the zoo.
- making a snow angel in an empty parking lot.
- walking to 7/11 in the rain, 4pm and already pitch black.
- hand-drawing a map to navigate my way around the city.
- standing in front of the shark tank at the aquarium and pretending i'm inside it.
- going to the movie theatre on christmas.
- witnessing a couple share a kiss goodbye.
- carrying a coffee table from an alley up to my apartment. accepting help from nice strangers.
- researching how to develop good habits at the library.
- figuring out how to ride the train.
1.7.2025
my lovely solo date
today was a free admission day at the aquarium so i decided to finally go check it out and spend my day off downtown! the plan was to shop for some bookbinding thread, go ice skating for a bit, check out the aquarium, and end my day doodling at a cafe. it ended up being such a lovely day.
i was riding the train, lost in thought, when just as i looked up i saw a photo of
elliott smith perfectly at eye level. a girl with a screenprinted tote bag with his face on it was just walking past in that moment to get off at the station. if i had looked even a second later i would've missed it! i wish i had gotten a chance to talk to her, but even just seeing it for a second made me happy.
later while shopping for thread i ended up getting a bunch of other supplies too. i already started making my journal for 2025 and all i have left to do is bind it. having many different pens will really enhance my journaling experience!
- lino block. maybe i'll make a print for the cover of my journal
- brown oil pastel
- waxed thread. i wanted unwaxed but it was all they had
- pink pilot click pen
- black micronpen, archival ink
- purple pen
- black pilot click pen
- pink coloring brush pen
i also saw these two by the checkout and i couldn't help myself... i think i'll keep the unicorn in my bag and the pegasus in my jacket pocket as good luck charms.
i ended up arriving a bit late to the skating rink and i would've had to make a reservation for 9pm which felt too late so i decided to skip it. i'll go another day in the morning. as i walked to the aquarium 30 minutes away a car pulled up next to me on the bridge which was a bit concerning, but it was just a nice woman offering me a ride since it was so cold. i thanked her and refused since i almost there anyway, but it made me happy to have been shown such kindness by a stranger!
the aquarium was beautiful. i pet some sharks and sea stars, and i had a really lovely interaction with a penguin. the enclosure was dark and most of them were asleep on their rock, but one of them was playing around in the water. there was an illuminated sign with information about the penguins in front of the glass, and when i held my hand up to it it cast a shadow onto the bottom of the tank. the penguin swam around chasing the shadow of my fingers as i waved them back and forth, and we played like that for a while. it was so cute!!
i saw a vending machine had some goldfish which seemed like a funny and appropriate snack choice but my bag got stuck. i'm sure i could've shaken the machine or stuck my arm in to grab it but there were too many people around so i just cut my losses.
by the end of the night i was exhausted and the cafe i wanted to go to was closing soon, so i just got some tea and congee at a restaurant i like by my apartment. i gasped when i saw the reciept said my order was number 22! as in pluto22!!
i'm so glad i decided to go out today even though i felt really lazy this morning. i had so many tiny, beautiful, serendipitous experiences. i really feel like the universe is encouraging the optimism i've been trying to foster this year. i've been a sourpuss for so long and now i just feel warm and grateful.
<3
12.29.24
New Year's Resolutions- I love them!
i understand the issues some people have with the concept of a new year's resolution. some people think they're pointless because they will be abandoned in a month and you don't need to wait till January 1st every year in order to pick up a new habit. i get it. time isn't real. we can decide to better ourselves at any time. it's a lot of pressure and we often set the bar too high and we can't commit for longer than a few weeks, feeling discouraged and disappointed in ourselves by February. they're certainly not for everyone.
but they are for me! i love setting New Year's Resolutions!
even though it may be arbitrary in the grand scheme of things, i really do find myself motivated by the idea of starting a new calendar year feeling fresh. the last few years my resolution has been to exercise daily, and every year i've succeeded, at least for a while. my best year was 2022, i exercised for 100 days in a row!
every year i start a few days earlier at the end of December to make the transition a little smoother; this year i'm starting on the 29th and spending the next few days cleaning my apartment.
my 2025 resolutions are:
exercising daily
i'm once again gonna do my best to exercise every single day. as long as i do some form of exercise in my apartment i will count it as a success, be it dancing, jumping jacks, a couple of crunches, some stretches. anything counts!
quitting sugar
this is the big one... i quit sugar for a month in the summer and i absolutely loved it. it was very tough at first to overcome the cravings but once i did it made managing my bipolar disorder and my mood swings significantly easier. i really never felt more energized and optimistic as i did then, and fruit tasted so much sweeter which was a wonderful bonus!
i don't want to completely forbid myself from ever having treats (that's no way to live) so i'll definitely still let myself have sugar on special occassions. as long as i'm not relying on sugar as my main source of easy dopamine, i'll be okay.
i'm very excited for the new year and i believe in myself. if you've read this far, i hope 2025 is a wonderful year full of unexpected positive turns in your life.
happY 2o25 !!!
12.26.24
Nosferatu 2024!
i went to see the new Nosferatu movie on christmas. i've loved the other Eggers movies i've seen so i had high expectations and it did not disappoint!
spoilers ahead!!
i haven't seen the original Nosferatu yet, but i've read Dracula and it was really cool to see this interpretation. the cast was incredible and Lily Rose Depp completely blew me away. i heard Harry Styles was in consideration to play Thomas and i'm so incredibly relieved they went with Nicholas Hoult instead.
it's a love story. it's about unconditional love and the ultimate sacrifice. i was really moved by it. love. parental love, platonic love, romantic love, sexual love, love for a pet. it was so present. Ellen even said the words "thank you for loving me." i want to rewatch it and count how many times the words "love" and "i love you" are said.
i'm still reeling from it. i really liked it a lot.
